Aidan,
I am at a loss for words. How
exactly am I supposed to put into words what these days have meant? They have
been so full of memories. There have been tears. There has been laughter. There
has been sheer determination.
Most of all, there has been love.
The kind of love that is known to
inspire books and movies. A love that takes your breath away and at the same
time gives you a reason to live. The love of a mother.
Each day has been a countdown to
you. Your birthday.
On this day, one year ago, you
changed me. You changed your Daddy. You changed the lives of so many people
sweet boy. People who came to see you. Hold you. Kiss you. Snuggle you.
Love you.
On this day, one year ago, you
changed everything. And you did it without having ever taken a breath. You are
that amazing. You are that powerful. You are my son.
There are so many adjectives I
could use to describe the impact you have made in the past year. None seem to
compare as much as faith, grace, and love…Holy.
The precious hours I spent with you
were the epitome of these things. They are untarnished by the fact that I would
not get to take you home with us. They were simply moments spent with you.
Moments as a complete family. Moments that will carry me through until I see
you again.
A child’s first birthday is always
this big celebration. So many milestones have been and are being reached.
The
parents tend to go overboard. Party. Gifts. Cake. Proud moments. Endless
pictures. What wouldn’t I give to live in that realm of reality again.
Instead, I am in a car; headed
towards a boat. Just your daddy and I. Your first birthday is upon us and yet
we live in the world where you are not here. With your birthday comes the harsh
reality that we don’t get those things. Instead we get the love of those who
love you and understand the overwhelming loss of these days. Others have
sympathy. The ignorance of those who
don’t get it and just think it means it’s been a year and we should be
“better.”
I wake up each day with the hope
that I will get to say your name. Share your pictures. Be your mom without
someone questioning why. So, on this day, a day that is 100 percent about you;
about your life; we are celebrating. The fight, the determination, the love,
the grace and the faith it has taken to survive each day since. We are
rejoicing in the knowledge that we were chosen to be your parents. We are so
proud to be your family. We are so grateful that we know where you are. We
smile knowing you are safely tucked in the arms of loved ones. Happy. Blissful.
Surrounded by the perfection you deserve.
It seems unbelievable that it has
already been a year. Yet, this has been the longest, hardest and most defining
year of my life.
1
year
12
months
52
weeks
365
days
525948
minutes
31556926
seconds
Each and every one of them has been
about you. Because this day is the day you were born. The day your legacy
began. The day you did something that no one else has ever done or will ever do
again. You made me a mom.
I am so thankful to you. I love you
more than I ever knew I could. I miss you with every fiber of my being. I am
the proudest Momma. I am heartbroken that I don’t get to watch you grow. I
eagerly wait for the day I get to hold you again. I am looking towards the
future. Hoping that one day I will be able to tell your little brother or
sisters about their amazing big brother and how he is the reason they are here.
I fell head over heels in love with you one
year ago. Every day that love has grown more. I’ll look for you in the waves,
stars and peace of this week. Your momma loves you so. Each and every heartbeat
I share with you.
Happy Birthday to you, Aidan
Thomas. Happy Birthday to you.
Enduring love,
Momma
